Every Human Being is Always Present For a Specific Purpose and For Specific Life Lessons .

An article by: Aishvara Michelle.

For some reason, every day there are always human interactions. Every day, whether you like  it or not, you have to engage in social interactions. Such as talking to your mother, neighbors,  supermarket employees, and others. You encounter a variety of personalities in your daily life.  In any news, have you noticed that almost all the chaos or peace that exists comes from humans  themselves? Humans blame humans. Humans hate humans. Humans love humans. This is  related to Robert Cox's Critical Theory.“Theory is always for someone and for some purpose.” (Kusumawardhana, 2012). This theory can be applied to social life. However, there is a slight  change in meaning, namely “Every human being is always present for a specific purpose and  for specific life lessons.” This quote, which I created, can be applied as wisely as possible  without harming anyone. 

You must have clear boundaries in your social interactions. Being firm does not mean being  rude. Being firm does not mean being harsh. Being firm means having a strong stance without  being aggressive and expressing yourself in a polite and gentle manner. It is difficult to remove  someone who is harmful to us. The first time I cut someone out of my social circle, I felt like  a bad person. Negative thoughts about myself haunted my mind. Over time, I looked back at  the person who had harmed me and realized it was okay. There were no new problems or old  issues that arose from cutting someone out who had harmed me. In fact, good things kept  coming because I focused on the positive aspects of my life. 

A soul that has not fully healed can be provoked again by trivial things. Therefore, it is very  important to set boundaries. One way to do this is to stay away from painful sources, including  social media platforms. (Amelia Rosa, 2025). Unwittingly, you may find yourself trapped in  viewing posts from your ex, friends who have disappointed you, or painful memories. This  does not indicate that you are weak or running away, but rather serves as proof that you value  yourself. You can start by being mindful of what you watch, listen to, or even the conversations  you have daily. Create a calming and safe environment so your feelings don’t constantly linger  in sadness. If needed, take a break from the online world and focus on the reality around you. 

Find activities that help you feel better, such as gardening, caring for pets, or reading books  that bring peace. 

You should be grateful for what has happened. This time, you were able to endure the pain and  make the right decision. Half of you is indeed hurt, but the other half remains valuable.  Sometimes you long for all the things you used to be able to do. However, you are now an  adult. You must accept it. You must live your life in a new way, facing all the challenges that  come your way. There is no need to dwell on the past. Regret will not change the past. The  peaceful life you once had can be achieved if you make peace with yourself. 

Remember, every person who has been in your life has made you a better person than you were  before. Even though you can't turn back time, everything that has happened is a blessing. Your  life is a blessing from God. The person you once were is the process that shaped who you are  today. There’s no need to regret it. There’s no need to feel discouraged. Just focus on the  present. You can change your life depending on the habits you have right now. May your days  always be filled with happiness and blessings. I always pray for the best for you.

REFERENCES 

Kusumawardhana, I., & Bainus, A. (n.d.). A Coxian Approach: Mengungkap Hegemoni  Agenda “Education For All” terhadap Negara Berkembang. 

Amelia Rosa. (2025, July 25). Peluk Diri Sendiri, Ini 7 Cara Menenangkan Hati yang Pernah  Terluka .